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Our house was directly across the street from the clinic entrance of
Johns Hopkins Hospital in Baltimore. We lived downstairs and rented the
upstairs. One summer evening as I was fixing supper, there was a knock at
the door. I opened it to see a truly awful looking man. "Why, he's hardly
taller than my eight-year-old," I thought as I stared at the stooped,
shriveled body. But the appalling thing was his face, lopsided from
swelling, red and raw. Yet his voice was pleasant as he said, "Good evening.
I've come to see if you've a room for just one night. I came for a treatment
this morning from the eastern shore, and there's no bus 'til morning." He
told me he'd been hunting for a room since noon but with no success, no one
seemed to have a room. "I guess it's my face... I know it looks terrible,
but my doctor says with a few more treatments..." For a moment I hesitated,
but his next words convinced me: "I could sleep in this rocking chair on the
porch. My bus leaves early in the morning."
I told him we would find him a bed, but to rest on the porch. I went
inside and finished getting supper. When we were ready, I asked the old man
if he would join us. "No thank you. I have plenty." And he held up a brown
paper bag. When I had finished the dishes, I went out on the porch to talk
with him a few minutes. It didn't take a long time to see that this old man
had an oversized heart crowded into that tiny body. He told me he fished for
a living to support his daughter, her five children, and her husband, who
was hopelessly crippled from a back injury. He didn't tell it by way of
complaint; in fact, every other sentence was preface with a thanks to God
for a blessing. He was grateful that no pain accompanied his disease, which
was apparently a form of skin cancer. He thanked God for giving him the
strength to keep going.
At bedtime, we put a camp cot in the children's room for him. When I
got up in the morning, the bed linens were neatly folded and the little man
was out on the porch. He refused breakfast, but just before he left for his
bus, haltingly, as if asking a great favor, he said ,"Could I please come
back and stay the next time I have a treatment? I won't put you out a bit. I
can sleep fine in a chair." He paused a moment and then added, "Your
children made me feel at home. Grownups are bothered by my face, but
children don't seem to mind." I told him he was welcome to come again.
And on his next trip he arrived a little after seven in the morning.
As a gift, he brought a big fish and a quart of the largest oysters I had
ever seen. He said he had shucked them that morning before he left so that
they'd be nice and fresh. I knew his bus left at 4:00 a.m. and I wondered
what time he had to get up in in order to do this for us.
In the years he came to stay overnight with us there was never a time
that he did not bring us fish or oysters or vegetables from his garden.
Other times we received packages in the mail, always by special delivery;
fish and oysters packed in a box of fresh young spinach or kale, every leaf
carefully washed. Knowing that he must walk three miles to mail these, and
knowing how little money he had made the gifts doubly precious. When I
received these little remembrances, I often thought of a comment our
next-door neighbor made after he left that first morning. "Did you keep that
awful looking man last night? I turned him away! You can lose roomers by
putting up such people!" Maybe we did lose roomers once or twice. But oh! If
only they could have known him, perhaps their illnesses would have been
easier to bear. I know our family always will be grateful to have known him;
from him we learned what it was to accept the bad without complaint and the
good with gratitude to God.

Recently I was visiting a friend, who has a greenhouse, as she showed
me her flowers, we came to the most beautiful one of all, a golden
chrysanthemum, bursting with blooms. But to my great surprise, it was
growing in an old dented, rusty bucket. I thought to myself, "If this were
my plant, I'd put it in the loveliest container I had!" My friend changed my
mind. "I ran short of pots," she explained, "and knowing how beautiful this
one would be, I thought it wouldn't mind starting out in this old pail. It's
just for a little while, till I can put it out in the garden." She must have
wondered why I laughed so delightedly, but I was imagining just such a scene
in heaven. "Here's an especially beautiful one," God might have said when he
came to the soul of the sweet old fisherman. "He won't mind starting in this
small body."
All this happened long ago -- and now, in God's garden, how tall this
lovely soul must stand. The LORD does not look at the things man looks at.
Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart." (1
Samuel 16:7b) Friends are very special. They make you smile and encourage
you to succeed. They lend an ear and they share a word of praise.
Show your friends how much you care.... Pass this on, and brighten
someone's day. Nothing will happen if you do not decide to pass it along.
The only thing that will happen if you DO pass it on is that someone might
smile (because of you)
~Author Unknown~
IN GOD WE TRUST
  


The Children's Hour (film)
From
My Desk
 




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